I'm Due July 1st and this is my first baby. I'm really upset because I have not even started to dilate.?

My doctor said they will let me go TWO weeks over due and then induce. To me this is ridiculous, I understand he will come when he's ready and from every other comment I read there is nothing I can do about it:( But honestly i'm stressed. I'm freaking out about the stupid government shut down cause i got a letter saying that me and baby might not be covered after the 1st( health care), and they are not back paying anything. I've lost control of my bladder for the most part and the most they did for that was tell me to where a pad. great. i'm getting impatient and irritable. My feet are swollen and turn blue quick when im standing. I have a little figure and honestly think my body is done being pregnant, but baby does not agree. Ive asked my doc for a letter to my county worker cause as of now im on assistance and have 35 hours of looking for a job that i will never get. a total waste of time. And she refused to write one. She is totally against me! So i cant make my 5 hours a day of applying for jobs and running around town for an interview that i already know im not getting the job for so im stressed that i will lose my assistance. All this stress i feel like is keeping my baby inside? And no one seems to understand. Im not a big complainer so i dont push anything when i go in to the doctor, i figure she will help me or she wont. does anyone have any advice for my next visit? I;m seeing my MD? and im hoping she will give me that gel.. or something to start this process.